Overqualified - on feedback & discrimination
What follows is an updated version of Chapter 10 from A Career Breakdown Kit (2026).
I've made some additions around what it means to be overqualified, and why this doesn't always mean an employer is ageist.
I'm mindful that the market has been extremely tough for many over the past few years, disproportionately affecting more experienced (older) job seekers.
So it can be easy to assume that what may be practical business decisions may hide an ism. Yet, that's not always the full picture.
In this addition I show that the same advice I give to job seekers about keeping cards close to their chest increases risk of flight risk for employers.
This chapter challenges assumptions that are widely held for good reason: experienced workers have faced genuine discrimination. But as with the ATS mythology, incomplete narratives can lead to strategic missteps. What follows is the fuller picture, even where it's uncomfortable.
The newsletter format is ideal in this way, given I can update the book on the fly, and that even if I repeat releasing a chapter, it's only because there is significant new or changed information to share.
You'll get these chapters here first, with the 2027 edition due for release in the New Year. And don't worry - if you've already bought this year's edition, contact me when the new release is out and I'll send you a free digital version.
10 - On feedback and discrimination
Any fair and reasonable recruitment requires three criteria to be met in filling a vacancy: capability, fit and stick.
Capability answers the question, ‘Can you fulfil the needs of the vacancy?’
This relates to the immediate problems a vacancy solves and can include you being available in the right time frame.
This also includes other dimensions such as forward-planning - for example, looking at the next job as well as this one through succession planning, or having confidential plans that will affect this role in future.
I classify the wrong work permit here in the same way a lack of a hard minimum qualification can be a deal breaker.
If you aren’t seen to be able to fulfil the role, for whatever reason, this is a capability rejection.
The good thing about capability is that this is feedback which should be straightforward to give in an objective process.
Fit is whether you are perceived to fit in or add to the business, culture and team.
Stick is when you are perceived to remain in post long enough for the employer to see a return on their investment. This includes points like salary affordability and even location, if the employer doesn’t believe your commute is sustainable. And ‘flight risk’ for those considered overqualified.
Unlike capability, both these points are mainly subjective.
What even is a culture or a sustainable commute anyway?
Unfortunately, bias and assumptions are a common occurrence.
I say ‘fair and reasonable’ because some employers are not, and even fair and reasonable employers make unfair or unreasonable assumptions.
So - three reasons only, yet each comes together in unique ways, both for selection and rejection.
A typical process
In the market we’ve found ourselves in during the last few years, many vacancies have many candidates who meet all of those criteria above.
The sheer volume alone can make it hard to identify the right candidates, more so when applicants may not know how to make their candidacy discoverable.
By discoverable, I mean enabling the weakest link in a recruitment chain to see your suitability through the principles covered in Part Three.
Here is what a typical vacancy might look like, working backwards, in a 2-stage interview process from a public job advert:
- One candidate offered the position
- 2-3 candidates at final interview
- 5-8 candidates at 1st stage interview
- 40-50 applicants who show suitable candidacy
- Another 40-150 applicants who aren’t directly suitable yet have transferable skills
- A further 150-200 applicants who are wholly unsuitable, which may be for reasons of work permit status or wrong background
That could be a total of 400 applications, where only one person gets the job.
Now let’s say those 5-8 candidates at 1st stage interview are all excellent, with little to choose between them.
What separates those who are selected and those who are declined?
You might be a qualified candidate. What’s to say the others aren’t as qualified in their own ways, some of whom might be more suited?
Sometimes it’s such fine margins that feedback may be meaningless.
I use this example to set the scene - there are other approaches to recruitment, such as headhunting, where the numbers look different.
I expect if you are reading this, you have at some point battled your way through a competitive process. If you were ‘pipped to the post’ as a 2nd choice candidate, take solace in being 2nd out of possibly hundreds - that’s an effective performance to build on.
When feedback goes wrong
If you’ve ever worked in a hiring capacity, you may know that giving feedback can be fraught with consequences.
Some years back, an early lesson on what can happen was a conversation I had with a candidate for an HR Director role.
This was a maternity leave contract. He was a close 2nd to a strong candidate. There wasn’t anything he might have done differently and, had that candidate declined, they would have been pleased to offer him the position.
He took the news and my feedback well, and we agreed to speak again at the earliest opportunity.
The following morning, I had a call from the HR Director, who was aghast. She’d received a vitriol-filled email from the candidate after my conversation with him. Accusations, ill wishes and swear words aimed at a professional who was heavily pregnant.
Even with the best intentions, seemingly good people can be triggered to act abhorrently.
Given that feedback may seemingly overlap with discrimination areas, such as being overqualified, it's no wonder many companies choose to either give platitudes or not to give feedback at all.
Generic feedback
These all tether to the list at the top, either directly or in a way that doesn’t cause issues.
What feedback would you give to someone that is abrasive or offensive at interview?
How about someone with atypical body language or communication style?
Someone who is down in the dumps?
Someone who likes cricket when you like football?
Someone who is arrogant and blind to the damage they’ve caused in previous jobs?
Someone who is a maintenance mode manager in an environment of rapid change?
Some of these descriptions relate to people who are illegally discriminated against, others to people who are simply unpleasant, and many more.
‘Cultural fit’ may sometimes be the straightforward way to explain a decision.
An easy way out with an individual you shouldn’t employ, something that hides poor process, something that hides discrimination, or something else.
And sometimes a simple way not to hurt someone’s feelings.
Whatever the reason, the worst it can invite is frustration for the candidate, rather than specific feedback which opens a can of worms.
Let’s talk about overqualified.
A popular social media post is that it’s impossible to be overqualified.
The more accurate truth is that there are only two states - you are either qualified or not qualified for a vacancy.
You are qualified if you meet the measure of capability, stick and fit.
You are unqualified if you don’t meet all three.
The use of the word overqualified is a lazy fallback that creates problems unnecessarily in a fair and reasonable process.
The common perception is that overqualification relates to seniority, a level of expertise above the requirements for the role, expense or even age, and this can be true. But these aren’t necessarily the reasons behind the use of the word.
The real issue with the word is its ambiguity.
Hidden context
When I recruit for any vacancy, there is typically a context not visible in the employer’s job description. This might be kept back for an interview or remain forever trapped in their heads.
One example might be the role trajectory - how it will change over time.
It might be a salary budget that has the balance of the team in mind.
It might be that the role won’t change at all. From a retention perspective, more junior candidates have more room to grow before it becomes blindingly boring to them.
Or it could be that the role is hands-on. A strategic expertise may be too far removed.
These might not be articulated clearly yet can be fair selection criteria for declining a candidate - where the recruiter might say overqualified instead.
By identifying these points, I can make them clear in my adverts and conversations, and applicants aren’t left bemused by decisions from hidden information.
And when I am wrong in my decision, I welcome constructive disagreement to allow clarity.
The examples here are simplified - the devil is always in the detail.
In most adverts and job descriptions, this key hidden context is often missing, making overqualified hard feedback to take.
I’d be annoyed if given that from an application to a generic job description-led advert full of innovative adjectives and no insight.
Regrettably, overqualified can also used to hide discrimination.
‘Flight risk’ is a reason for declining a candidate that is often bundled with overqualified.
“We think you’ll get bored.” Is intended to take the sting off, complimenting the candidate on their capability. It feels anything but, given candidates interview with intent and all available facts at their disposal.
Yet, if you consider that one of the primary decision drivers in recruitment is risk, is there a legitimate concern here.
There is a common long term thought process in a tough job search.
The first is to compromise and consider why more junior jobs might be sustainable. Maybe it will let you focus on the work you enjoy without the baggage of further responsibility.
Then if you were to gain the job, simply to be open minded about better opportunities that might be presented to you.
Who knows what the future might bring, and you are likely to commit to this junior role long-term.
Should that better opportunity present itself, you simply make an informed decision based on new information that presents itself.
This is advice I give to job seekers who are offered a more junior job.
Yet, with my recruitment hat on, over the past 2 years, I’ve never seen so many people leave recently taken jobs for better opportunities.
Where the employer had “given them a chance”, something any job seeker wants, then lost that colleague with all the disruption it entails.
This includes referring a friend to a peer, when they were desperate to leave their job. They’d even have taken minimum wage so bad was their current situation. My peer, following a two interview process, gave them a decent offer, only for them to accept a counter offer shortly after.
I wish my friend well – he made the best decision that he could. Yet I have let my peer down through the value of that referral – personal equity.
And my peer has let their hiring manager down through the same.
These things happen – a common phrase in recruitment. Yet, every time a risk actually happens, it makes it harder to consider that risk in future.
What these types of feedback have in common is that they can mean fair, neutral and unfair (and possibly illegal) reasons for declining your application.
Unless you have evidence of the harmful connotation, you should assume there is fair reason.
Here’s another common reason to unpick - industry experience.
Not so much to discuss whether it’s right to reject someone on this basis.
More so because it’s often a rejection that happens after an interview process, leading to the common question,
‘Why did they waste my time, when they knew I didn’t have industry experience?’
Industry experience is an example of how selection criteria shift throughout a recruitment process.
This might be because of the hierarchy of decision-makers. It’s not uncommon for additional decision-makers to become involved late in the process, who may have a strong objection that wasn’t present earlier.
Or how tight calls are judged between candidates.
The closer you get to the offer stage, the fewer candidates you compete with. What weren’t issues before can become decision-making factors at the final hurdle, everything else being even.
Is feedback worth it?
Feedback can be a game changer, particularly when we help candidates overcome blind spots, improve how they play the game, and deliver a better interview.
It’s always worth asking for feedback or ways to improve your performance. If that answer isn’t forthcoming, I’d question whether it’s worth pursuing, or if that energy is better spent elsewhere.
Assuming you perform well at interview, the question to consider is - when has feedback made a difference to you?
If feedback doesn’t make a difference you should act on, is it worth worrying about?
Or is it healthier to draw a line through that application, and move forward?
What can you do instead?
Self-reflection is key. After an interview, think back on the areas you did well and what you might have done differently.
For problem questions, write them down and think of better answers for future reference.
For questions you felt you answered well - run through them with a friend and ask them to time your response. Waffling never helps.
If you find yourself BSing, ask why. Was it a lack of confidence, rusty knowledge, or a gap to overcome?
Did you prepare well enough?
If answers aren’t coming from elsewhere, look within.
How can you better show that you solve the employer’s problems, through your capability, fit and stick?

