A resilient job search

Greg Wyatt • February 27, 2024

At the start of unexpected job search, a natural inclination is to go out all guns blazing.

Update the CV, hit the job boards, contact relevant agencies, network, writing content on LinkedIn.

If you are lucky, or the market allows, this can land you suitable employment quickly enough.

But, for many a job search isn’t so simple. It can be long and drawn out, filled with bad experiences no one deserves, and where every rejection can take a piece away from you.

It can be easy to take that on your own shoulders, lose the drive to keep going and even to burn out.

What can we do to reduce the odds of that happening?


Resilience is an odd term - the ability to bounce back from difficult situations.

It’s not a quality we should want to have to have on a personal level.

But at a strategic level, it’s crucial to long-term success, without losing out on short-term opportunities.


How can you make your job search resilient?


I first came across the Stockdale Paradox during the first part of the pandemic.

It’s the notion that we should face the reality of our situation, no matter how harsh, so that we can establish the right plan to get through it, without losing optimism that we will prevail.

Coined by Jim Collins in Good to Great, exploring the life of Admiral James Stockdale, it is a characteristic found in many successful CEOs.

And you are the CEO of your job search.

You can read more about the Stockdale Paradox here.


This principle is the heart of a resilient job search, and it has three components

- Face the reality of our situation, no matter how harsh

- Establish the right sustainable plan

- Keep the faith that you will get through it

Which is what we will look at in the next three sections.


Part 1

“Facing reality” has a number of practical components, with elements you can control and those you cannot.

1/ Your role has been made redundant, not you.

Most redundancies are led by corporate strategy, not because of individual performance.

It’s something that has happened to you - it is not who you are, and does not predict what will happen next.

Career grief is a necessary process, to help you separate from what may be an entrenched professional identity. Feel your feelings so you can process them and find clarity.

2/ The market has a significant part to play in how easy it is secure a role.

For example, while the TA market is improving, there remain a greater number of out of work TA people than vacancies available.

What is the truth of your area of the market, and how should this inform your strategy?

Talk to fellow jobseekers, peers, people with hiring authority, recruiters - anyone that might give you insight into what’s going on in your specific domain.

If there are no jobs to be had, this may be a difficult fact to absorb, but how else can you therefore meet your own needs?

3/ Who are you?

Everyone has a different situation, challenges, financial commitments, aspirations, strengths and weaknesses.

Your career is built from successful roles, their experiences, the part you played and your achievements. Yours skills and qualifications.

Define these clearly and don’t lose sight of them. These show who you are and how you can help, not your situation.

A great reminder is to ask your peers and former colleagues what they think of you. Ask for a LinkedIn recommendation.

4/ What does the future look like?

While we hope a job search is a short term activity, it’s healthy to visualise what may happen if it isn’t.

What does your future look like if you are unemployed in six months? Or even longer?

What are the steps you can take now that reduce the odds of this happening?

If you have a financial crunch imminent, could securing alternative employment in the short-term be a good move?

Make an affordability plan now, and budget out in advance. How can you stretch out your finances?

A mortgage break, jobseeker allowance, universal credit, interest free credit cards - every little may help.

I would have no qualms over stacking shelves in the evenings if it secured my family’s finances a little longer.

Negative visualisation is an important aspect of Stoicism and managing your expectations.

5/ What are the rules of the game?

Employer and agency recruitment is often a disaster zone for candidates in this market.

I’ve had so many conversations with job seekers about how surprised they were about:

  • being ghosted

  • having jobs pulled

  • lowball salaries

  • discrimination

You can probably tell me your experiences.

It’s a shame you should expect that as business as usual, but we are where we are.

Even when you know to have low expectations, it’s helpful to understand how ATSs actually work, how to use job boards effectively, how recruiters work.

That’s what this series is about - check out the archive and subscribe if you’ll benefit.

What are the rules of the game, and what can you do to get those rules working for you?

6/ What are the routes available to you in finding a job?

In the same way everyone is different, so to are the means in which you can find a job.

For some people, there is little point spending time on job boards, it’s all about networking.

If you happen to be in a skill short discipline, they are great, but then you probably aren’t reading this.


These principles, and more, are your reality. Learn the ropes then make a plan.


Part 2

Making a sustainable plan involves a number of principles.

It’s true that looking for work can feel like a full-time job, but it’s more like running your own business. You are accountable for everything, no one tells you what to do, and you have to fit it in around the rest of your life.

Keeping a job search sustainable means you can keep applying the same actions over a longer period of time.

Perhaps you’ll get a job next week, but if you don’t, you have to find a way to keep going.

1/ Zone of control

Separate what you have control over (your thoughts, feelings, messaging and actions) from what you can’t (everything else).

It’s futile worrying about tomorrow (which will come soon enough) or about things out of our control, so why waste energy?

Easier said than done, of course.

But the decisions others make on you are out of your control.

The decision to answer a call, read your application, make you an offer, ghost you - these aren’t down to you.

Instead, focus on the steps you do have control over:

Your CV, which adverts to apply to and how, how you follow up, how you network.

2/ Detachment from outcome

It’s really easy to get hung up on any particular outcome, to the extent it disenables you from taking other action.

Especially in a tough job search.

But outcomes which are out of your control have no say in the steps you should be taking.

If you are waiting for a job offer, that’s the time to put the foot down and use that positive energy with further job search actions.

Otherwise, what happens if that offer doesn’t come through?

All too common I’m afraid, when you have to start from square one with your confidence trampled on.

Besides, anyone who has negotiated will know the best negotiators are those who can walk away because the outcome doesn’t affect them.

3/ It’s about time

Plan your week out ahead - what is the best use of your time, given what you have available?

Don’t lose time to make work - those wing and a prayer applications or pretending that scrolling and commenting on LinkedIn is networking.

Do be intentional and accountable.

Do plan breaks in.

Do replace what was your commute with solitary time, whether a walk, other exercise or a sudoku.

Don't skimp on life's small pleasures either.

Don’t let job search time merge with non-job search time.

4/ Make a plan

Fail to plan, plan to fail. Make a plan at the start, and course correct when you need to.

5/ Job search funnel

Imagine your job search is a funnel where every activity that goes in will eventually come up the other side in the form of your next job.

You need to fill it with an appropriate mix of short-term, medium-term and long-term activity.

The temptation is to focus on the short-term and neglect the others because you need a job now.

Remember that section above about negative visualisation?

If you are out of work in six months, what are the long-term activities you should be doing now that might pay off then?

Do them sustainably now.

Writing content, door knocking, constructive networking, and keeping in touch. These are activities for the future you may regret not doing.

6/ The other bits

  • Eliminate negative self-talk. How you talk to yourself informs how you come across

  • Look after yourself, mind and body, exercise and diet

  • Set up a networking group with fellow job seekers in a similar space. Keep in touch, check in on each other, share stories, keep each other sane, keep each other accountable

  • Can charities help you with any challenge you are facing?

  • Ask for help when you need it


Part 3

Maintain hope that you will prevail.

While we can’t control the outside world, that isn’t necessarily a bad thing. The market can and will improve, and you might find yourself offered the perfect job next week when you have nothing in view now.

When I do job seeker calls, with a week’s lead time, around 10% of them are cancelled for this very reason.

It’s you who will prevail.

Perhaps your career will look different.

Perhaps you’ll decide to pivot.

Making a choice for the right reasons is a brave thing to do.

You should never be ashamed about your situation or in asking for help.

You don’t have to feel you need resilience to keep going. It’s okay to feel crap about what’s happening, and if you need a break, take it, so that you can seize the opportunities that do come up.


Before I let you go, may I ask that if you find this newsletter or this edition helpful, please share it with fellow job seekers.

Share it in a LinkedIn post or by DM. I’m keen to help as many people as possible, and I’m grateful for your help in spreading the word.

Go get ‘em.

Regards,

Greg

By Greg Wyatt • November 5, 2026
It's interesting revisiting this article from 3 years ago, especially now AI products are more embedded in market. If anything my view on AI is more polarised, bringing many new opportunites, brand new problems, as well as the existential angst many are talking about. For me, codifying my experience with AI tools means I can help more people, while freeing up my time to do more human work. It's certainly helped with job seeker support, and increasingly so in my recruitment work. Mainly it's giving me more time to talk to people, and when homogenous AI applications at scale are one new problem, as well as the increasing threat of deep fake interviews, in person conversations might be a necessary exnovation (just googled that - what a great word that I will now abuse at scale). While the article below has dated somewhat, I think the threat it assesses has never been more pertinent. I've said for some time that AI might be the death of knowledge and judgement, even so far as 'meaning', something that this recent research also indicates . Importantly the research doesn't say the recommendations were wrong, just how they were followed. Read that article and think about how AI recommendations on applications relate. I've certainly found them more problematic, so far, than the old school ATS style ranking and filtering - because of the false confidence they convey, especially when dealing with non-traditional applications. Things may improve, or so is promised. And while words might be the first facility of LLM, they are still the core facility, given all it does is determine the most probable answer in its outputs (I know I'm being reductive, some of the developments from AI are amazing). Whereas words should be the consequence of thoughts, lead to the development of thought, and distil ideas in a way you can act on. Much like job adverts should be the consequence of effective job analysis, rather than a polished word that lacks meaning. The greatest risk for me in recruitment isn't so much the answers AI offers, but that we become so reliant we forget to ask better questions. I've edited down the previous article, but if you're curious, you can see it here . September 2023 I’d commented about my hearing on a social media post on deafness. ‘Have you looked into these hearing aids - they’re designed to overcome head shadow’, came the impromptu reply from a hearing aid specialist. Head shadow? Not a phrase I’d heard before, despite having no hearing on one side, which effectively creates a sound-free shadow to my right. See, when I had mumps at 18 months it killed the vestibulocochlear nerve in my right ear and damaged the one on the left. But it was my balance that showed the nursery assistants that something was wrong - I kept falling over for no reason. I expect they thought my slow response was normal naughty-boyness. Balance, intermittently poor audio processing, energy required to maintain attention in noisy environments and that bloody tinnitus - all these issues are far more annoying than not being able to hear in one ear. That and not being able to tell where sounds come from. “Over here, Greg!” is the most useless call on a football pitch. And the head shadow thing? Well, it’s never been an issue - I just turn my head when in conversation. It might look like I’m turning to kiss you, but it’s just a conversation I want honest. Sure I miss out on certain audio cues, but it’s rarely an issue. Anyway, curious as I am I looked into the £4,000 hearing aid that solves head shadow by placing a microphone on the deaf ear and projecting it into the the good ear. Quite the brute force tech solution and one I’m sure some benefit from. But the key issue is one of reverb. While the product is good, it would impact the quality of sound in my good ear, which seems a pointless trade-off for me, when my process of life is more effective than shiny tech. It’s ironic that I consider myself highly excitable when it comes to technology developments, yet I’m never an early adopter. Because I always ask myself, other than giddiness, what problems does this solve and how will it enhance my life. And so it is for AI in recruitment, and the shininess of tech in general. They are positioned as solving problems, and indeed they do, but in many cases, it’s the wrong problem that detracts us from the real opportunities for better processes. Simpler administration, speed and scale are clear benefits. And some of these AI-branded automations are excellent. The Star Trek-style auto-translator makes me giddy. As does the sales bot conversation-as-a-human sales video that’s doing the rounds. But AI for writing? What problem does that solve? For me, it depends on what you consider sales to be. Is sales pitching a generic message and hoping someone will bite? Or is sales laying out the facts so that the right person can reach an objective decision? A decision which might mean getting in touch, or changing their view on what needs recruiting. For the former AI writing seems to solve a problem. The words are certainly better, but the message is even worse. Yes: prompting. But if you can prompt the right message, why aren’t you just writing it, so that you embed that knowledge for use across other mediums - conversations, meetings and so on? While AI writing does not meet the requirements for the second type of sales. You can only do this by establishing the right facts from a briefing, consultation or interview. Then interpret this with meaning to the right people so that it creates the right impact. Sales as data visualisation, if you will. And if AI doesn’t work for sales in this way, why would it work for content or marketing? I think the answer depends on whether you value contextual insight or not. Until AI is better at asking questions that create meaningful conversation, it’s a non-starter for me. I say until because this hesitation will be moot in the next year or so. Because it isn’t what AI is now that’s the opportunity - it’s what’s coming soon. I can’t wait to see what’s next. Until then, AI, for writing, is a question of in one ear and out of the other. Which, if you’re deaf in the one, is quite the problem. Go learn copywriting instead, and listen to how it transforms your approach to recruitment. Then layer tech on top, when it’s ready. Thanks for reading. Regards, Greg p.s. If you like good recruitment and you need help with it in the UK, drop me a line. DM on LinkedIn, email greg.wyatt@bwrecruitment.co.uk , whichever you prefer.
By Greg Wyatt • November 4, 2026
If you ever thought 'outcome-led' was a pretentious headline for a recruiter, it's also how you should think about your job search. Welcome to the 50th edition of Jobseeker Basics. As well as sharing advice that - hopefully - helps you navigate our mercurial jobs market more easily, there's always been a separate utility to these newsletters. I use them to update chapters in A Career Breakdown Kit , so that I can ensure it is always as current as possible. People who've bought the Kindle edition will get an automatic update when the 2027 edition is released in January/February. Paperback owners are invited to contact me for a free digital update. For this newsletter, I've tightened some of the language around accepting job offers - pretty boring update, but maybe necessary for fringe cases. I often talk about outcome-led recruitment. While it might sound pretentious there's a simple reason, which underpins everything I do. Begin with the ending, work back and find the right path. In recruitment this means flashing forward 12 months. What did a successful hire look like? What problems did they solve? What separated excellent from good from adequate from inadequate? What were the outcomes you needed for it to have been a successful hire? Nail these points down and you work backwards. What good actually looks like in viable candidate profiles. What needs to be communicated to them to encourage them to take a step forwards. How we find them - whether in a headhunt, an advert, networking or other. I also talk a lot about why a job search should be the inverse of how that vacancy might be filled. And so it is that the outcome you want in your job search should inform your strategy to find that job. Ironically, On Job Offers is Chapter 31 in A Career Breakdown Kit, slap bang in the middle of the book on page 162. With good reason, given you may find yourself needing to look for work again in future, sometimes by choice and sometimes by the other. All the more reason to have a strategy you can replicate and improve on, time and time again: 31 - On job offers At some point you’re going to get a job offer. It’s helpful to be clear on what this should look like at the start of your job search. Because, if you don’t know your destination, how can you be sure which path to take? Here are the main points to consider. Identity At the start of any job search, remind yourself of your career identity. This may be at the point of an unexpected redundancy, when you’ve decided your current job is no longer right, or if a recruiter contacts you out of the blue with a compelling proposition. Try this once a year, even when gainfully employed, because it’s easy for the path of employment to diverge from where you want your career to go. What is your current context, personally, with family, in life? What do you need and how does work reflect this? What are your core values? The ones that underpin who you are and who you want to see in the mirror. How does work reflect this? What are the things you enjoy, are neutral about, or dislike in your career? What does this look like in your current job? How has your employer changed in the past year? How has the world changed? How does this reflect you as a person? Who do you want to be as a person, family member, friend and peer? What impact do you want to make? How much do you need to earn and by when? These answers aren’t fixed and can change quickly with a change in circumstance, as you change over time, or for reasons out of your control. Clarify what you want and what you need, and therefore what this looks like in your next job. This identity informs your job search strategy, part of which is the roles you go for, part of which is the approach you take, and part of which is what an acceptable job offer is. Total compensation & opportunity cost It's common to see salary as the most important factor in a job offer negotiation. It's better to look at negotiating total compensation and opportunity cost. Total compensation is the overall financial value of a role. It includes: Salary Pension contribution Bonus Commission Car allowance RSUs Some benefits are salary sacrificed or tax efficient - their value goes beyond what they appear on paper. A great pension scheme will save you 20% or 40% on tax payments in the UK across the salary invested. It might even, at a higher salary level, improve access to child benefits. On the other hand, opportunity cost is the consequence of taking an offer, compared to what you might have if you stayed. For example: Moving to a three-day hybrid, compared to full remote. What's the cost of mileage or time commuting? What's the cost of heating your home when fully remote? Or - a role that offers more money now, with no progression in future. Compared to a role that pays less now, and will leapfrog in future, while giving you skills that support career growth. Are these contractual and likely to happen, or are they empty promises? Look for evidence such as a track record with other employees. It's entirely possible to accept an offer with a higher salary and find yourself worse off with take home pay. Establish all the financial implications of an offer. Impact Impact goes both ways. The impact you can have in your new role, and the impact your new role will have on you. A high paying job that takes you away from a young family might be a solution or a problem. A brilliant job that’s an unsustainable commute won’t work long term. Does that matter to you? A well paid job that gives you a good balance at home yet will only be a cog in a machine - a dream for some, unfulfilling for others. Impact also includes trajectory. Are you someone who wants to do the same job over time, in a structured way? Someone who wants regular advancement and career development? Both, and others are fine. Make sure you know what you are getting yourself into. Culture & People It’s at least partly true that people leave bosses, not jobs. While decent people can become bad bosses for various reasons, some of which relate to the environment they manage within. The problem is that people are on their best behaviour in interview processes, while culture as it’s pitched doesn’t always reflect the culture experienced. The interview process should be there for you to gather facts as much as possible. Do your research to get a sense of a company’s values, principles, how it treats its people, and all those other elements that will affect a career with them. This is research to be done at interview stage or before. Ikigai (with a little i) A wonderful Japanese concept. In its original form it means ‘what you get out of bed for’ or ‘those small moments we take pleasure in.’ Rather than the westernised Venn Purpose Diagram many are familiar with as Ikigai (with a big I). If you ask people in Japan what they think of Ikigai they may well say something along the lines of ‘huuunnhh?’ ikigai is a helpful principle when considering a job offer. It’s those qualities unique to you (often defined by your career identity) that you take pleasure in, while others around you may not get it. Sometimes this is gut instinct. Important to listen to, important to challenge. It’s at least part of your decision in a job offer. Even if everything else might be just alright, ikigai in your offered job might be good reason to take it. Or it might be the company’s purpose and what they are doing to improve the world. ikigai is unique to you and it makes everything better if you can find it. Those are the key points to look at if given a job offer. There’s no right or wrong, only right for you and the people you support. Negotiating salary There are a lot of moving parts in any salary negotiation, both at your end and with the employer. There are two main elements. The first is your place in the market - do what you can to find the range of fair pay available to you right now. The second is compensation philosophy - how do companies reach an offer? Both come down to asking questions and research. Assume nothing. I would err on the side of boldness in a salary negotiation. At final interview stage, I’d ask for the top end, based on what I’ve learnt - if they see me as the best candidate, why wouldn’t I? If they offer a little lower than I expect, I’d be positive about it and ask what else they can do to improve their offer. It’s unlikely you’ll lose out on an offer by being clear and respectful. If you want to drill deep into negotiations, I recommend reading Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss. His advice on deep listening, calibrated questions and price anchors are directly relevant to salary negotiation. Negotiating is highly contextual, so you should be careful if following opinion-led advice on what works for that individual. After the offer As with a salary negotiation, the post offer process and run up to employment is different from employer to employer. You can indicate that you're happy to proceed and ask the employer to issue the formal paperwork. Be aware that accepting an offer, even verbally, can create a legally binding contract. If you're not ready to commit, make that clear and reserve your formal acceptance until you've reviewed the written terms. In practice, the legal risk of withdrawing before starting is generally low. Most employers will have little commercial interest in pursuing someone who no longer wishes to join, particularly where they have suffered no demonstrable loss. However, contractual obligations and reputational consequences are worth considering. Treat the Offer Letter as a formal proof of your new employer’s offer of employment. If something isn’t right with the Letter, ask the employer for clarification. Once you've accepted the offer, signed and returned the letter, and any conditions have been satisfied, you can resign and agree a start date with your new employer. Aim to understand their onboarding process. Is there anything helpful you can do before your start date? Make sure you know when, where and any arrival instructions for your first day. As for your wider job search - you should withdraw from other applications when you formally accept an offer. It’s your choice whether you keep your cards close to your chest, accepting a suitable offer with the prospect of something better coming up. You can cross that bridge if you come to it. While this is not something I recommend, a tough job search is as good a time as any to look after number one.