A resilient job search

Greg Wyatt • February 27, 2024

At the start of unexpected job search, a natural inclination is to go out all guns blazing.

Update the CV, hit the job boards, contact relevant agencies, network, writing content on LinkedIn.

If you are lucky, or the market allows, this can land you suitable employment quickly enough.

But, for many a job search isn’t so simple. It can be long and drawn out, filled with bad experiences no one deserves, and where every rejection can take a piece away from you.

It can be easy to take that on your own shoulders, lose the drive to keep going and even to burn out.

What can we do to reduce the odds of that happening?


Resilience is an odd term - the ability to bounce back from difficult situations.

It’s not a quality we should want to have to have on a personal level.

But at a strategic level, it’s crucial to long-term success, without losing out on short-term opportunities.


How can you make your job search resilient?


I first came across the Stockdale Paradox during the first part of the pandemic.

It’s the notion that we should face the reality of our situation, no matter how harsh, so that we can establish the right plan to get through it, without losing optimism that we will prevail.

Coined by Jim Collins in Good to Great, exploring the life of Admiral James Stockdale, it is a characteristic found in many successful CEOs.

And you are the CEO of your job search.

You can read more about the Stockdale Paradox here.


This principle is the heart of a resilient job search, and it has three components

- Face the reality of our situation, no matter how harsh

- Establish the right sustainable plan

- Keep the faith that you will get through it

Which is what we will look at in the next three sections.


Part 1

“Facing reality” has a number of practical components, with elements you can control and those you cannot.

1/ Your role has been made redundant, not you.

Most redundancies are led by corporate strategy, not because of individual performance.

It’s something that has happened to you - it is not who you are, and does not predict what will happen next.

Career grief is a necessary process, to help you separate from what may be an entrenched professional identity. Feel your feelings so you can process them and find clarity.

2/ The market has a significant part to play in how easy it is secure a role.

For example, while the TA market is improving, there remain a greater number of out of work TA people than vacancies available.

What is the truth of your area of the market, and how should this inform your strategy?

Talk to fellow jobseekers, peers, people with hiring authority, recruiters - anyone that might give you insight into what’s going on in your specific domain.

If there are no jobs to be had, this may be a difficult fact to absorb, but how else can you therefore meet your own needs?

3/ Who are you?

Everyone has a different situation, challenges, financial commitments, aspirations, strengths and weaknesses.

Your career is built from successful roles, their experiences, the part you played and your achievements. Yours skills and qualifications.

Define these clearly and don’t lose sight of them. These show who you are and how you can help, not your situation.

A great reminder is to ask your peers and former colleagues what they think of you. Ask for a LinkedIn recommendation.

4/ What does the future look like?

While we hope a job search is a short term activity, it’s healthy to visualise what may happen if it isn’t.

What does your future look like if you are unemployed in six months? Or even longer?

What are the steps you can take now that reduce the odds of this happening?

If you have a financial crunch imminent, could securing alternative employment in the short-term be a good move?

Make an affordability plan now, and budget out in advance. How can you stretch out your finances?

A mortgage break, jobseeker allowance, universal credit, interest free credit cards - every little may help.

I would have no qualms over stacking shelves in the evenings if it secured my family’s finances a little longer.

Negative visualisation is an important aspect of Stoicism and managing your expectations.

5/ What are the rules of the game?

Employer and agency recruitment is often a disaster zone for candidates in this market.

I’ve had so many conversations with job seekers about how surprised they were about:

  • being ghosted

  • having jobs pulled

  • lowball salaries

  • discrimination

You can probably tell me your experiences.

It’s a shame you should expect that as business as usual, but we are where we are.

Even when you know to have low expectations, it’s helpful to understand how ATSs actually work, how to use job boards effectively, how recruiters work.

That’s what this series is about - check out the archive and subscribe if you’ll benefit.

What are the rules of the game, and what can you do to get those rules working for you?

6/ What are the routes available to you in finding a job?

In the same way everyone is different, so to are the means in which you can find a job.

For some people, there is little point spending time on job boards, it’s all about networking.

If you happen to be in a skill short discipline, they are great, but then you probably aren’t reading this.


These principles, and more, are your reality. Learn the ropes then make a plan.


Part 2

Making a sustainable plan involves a number of principles.

It’s true that looking for work can feel like a full-time job, but it’s more like running your own business. You are accountable for everything, no one tells you what to do, and you have to fit it in around the rest of your life.

Keeping a job search sustainable means you can keep applying the same actions over a longer period of time.

Perhaps you’ll get a job next week, but if you don’t, you have to find a way to keep going.

1/ Zone of control

Separate what you have control over (your thoughts, feelings, messaging and actions) from what you can’t (everything else).

It’s futile worrying about tomorrow (which will come soon enough) or about things out of our control, so why waste energy?

Easier said than done, of course.

But the decisions others make on you are out of your control.

The decision to answer a call, read your application, make you an offer, ghost you - these aren’t down to you.

Instead, focus on the steps you do have control over:

Your CV, which adverts to apply to and how, how you follow up, how you network.

2/ Detachment from outcome

It’s really easy to get hung up on any particular outcome, to the extent it disenables you from taking other action.

Especially in a tough job search.

But outcomes which are out of your control have no say in the steps you should be taking.

If you are waiting for a job offer, that’s the time to put the foot down and use that positive energy with further job search actions.

Otherwise, what happens if that offer doesn’t come through?

All too common I’m afraid, when you have to start from square one with your confidence trampled on.

Besides, anyone who has negotiated will know the best negotiators are those who can walk away because the outcome doesn’t affect them.

3/ It’s about time

Plan your week out ahead - what is the best use of your time, given what you have available?

Don’t lose time to make work - those wing and a prayer applications or pretending that scrolling and commenting on LinkedIn is networking.

Do be intentional and accountable.

Do plan breaks in.

Do replace what was your commute with solitary time, whether a walk, other exercise or a sudoku.

Don't skimp on life's small pleasures either.

Don’t let job search time merge with non-job search time.

4/ Make a plan

Fail to plan, plan to fail. Make a plan at the start, and course correct when you need to.

5/ Job search funnel

Imagine your job search is a funnel where every activity that goes in will eventually come up the other side in the form of your next job.

You need to fill it with an appropriate mix of short-term, medium-term and long-term activity.

The temptation is to focus on the short-term and neglect the others because you need a job now.

Remember that section above about negative visualisation?

If you are out of work in six months, what are the long-term activities you should be doing now that might pay off then?

Do them sustainably now.

Writing content, door knocking, constructive networking, and keeping in touch. These are activities for the future you may regret not doing.

6/ The other bits

  • Eliminate negative self-talk. How you talk to yourself informs how you come across

  • Look after yourself, mind and body, exercise and diet

  • Set up a networking group with fellow job seekers in a similar space. Keep in touch, check in on each other, share stories, keep each other sane, keep each other accountable

  • Can charities help you with any challenge you are facing?

  • Ask for help when you need it


Part 3

Maintain hope that you will prevail.

While we can’t control the outside world, that isn’t necessarily a bad thing. The market can and will improve, and you might find yourself offered the perfect job next week when you have nothing in view now.

When I do job seeker calls, with a week’s lead time, around 10% of them are cancelled for this very reason.

It’s you who will prevail.

Perhaps your career will look different.

Perhaps you’ll decide to pivot.

Making a choice for the right reasons is a brave thing to do.

You should never be ashamed about your situation or in asking for help.

You don’t have to feel you need resilience to keep going. It’s okay to feel crap about what’s happening, and if you need a break, take it, so that you can seize the opportunities that do come up.


Before I let you go, may I ask that if you find this newsletter or this edition helpful, please share it with fellow job seekers.

Share it in a LinkedIn post or by DM. I’m keen to help as many people as possible, and I’m grateful for your help in spreading the word.

Go get ‘em.

Regards,

Greg

By Greg Wyatt March 23, 2026
This might seem a weird chapter. Surely you look at a job advert, maybe even read it, then decide to apply or not? Yet a job advert is more than just what's presented on a job board. It's a microcosm of everything in recruitment, including everything wrong, and you can learn a lot about what to expect in your job search by the least intentional of words. And when you do read a job advert, in its entirety, there are only two questions you should ask of it: Am I qualified? Should I be interested? It's somewhat odd that 99% of job adverts don't actually try and help you answer that. But maybe that's why employers say job adverts don't work. And why you don't think they do either. While you're here, why not check out A Career Breakdown Kit in its entirety? This series of always free chapters is an advert, after all. But it was never supposed to be an easy book to read, just accessible and comprehensive. I expect most readers are over 50, ND, or other marginalised demographics, considering these will likely be the longest out of work in our 'diverse and inclusive' world. If you're 'in demand' though, you'll probably click apply and wonder what the fuss was about. 44 - How to experience a job advert This chapter is about job adverts, what they are and aren’t, how you might experience them, how they might inform your decisions and your responses. I say experience rather than read because not all adverts are written or read. What’s a job advert? A job advert is the first step in a multichannel commercial approach to filling a vacancy. It’s the inverse of your job search taking a multichannel, through-the-line approach - we go where the candidates are. It’s the first step because it’s the first thing you experience of that vacancy irrespective of whether it’s a: Listing on a job board A post on social media A DM from a recruiter A phone call from a hiring process A referral Or any other means by which you become aware of a vacancy Each of these is a marketing or sales channel that may result in a candidate's application. It’s regrettable employers don’t necessarily see it this way because of the transactional nature of much recruitment process. They think it’s sticking a job posting up on LinkedIn. Employers forget that when you experience such an advert you first make the choice to entertain that advert rather than a yes or no to ‘Should I apply?’ Indeed much advertising neglects the psychology of a job move, which principally relates to problem awareness. How you experience an advert, what may encourage you to progress an enquiry and what you are prepared to put up with in the process relate to your situation and the problems you currently face. Are you out of work, needing any job to pay the bills? Are you in work, desperate to escape a toxic culture? Are you gainfully employed yet wouldn’t mind a bit more flexibility to pick the children up from school? Are you apparently smashing it, with that missing something you don’t even know about, and the right vacancy might improve your lot? And everything in between. The answer to these questions informs your experience of any advert. Because many employers don’t consider what informs an experience and think people would be lucky to work there, it’s rare that more than the minimum acceptable skill will be applied to an advert. As discussed in Better use of job boards, the emphasis is on more rather than better. It’s often thought that ‘if we can reach more candidates, we might fill the job.’ Rather than appeal to the right people for the right reasons. And so we are in a market where an advert attracts hundreds if not thousands of applications, most of whom are wholly unsuitable. What isn’t a job advert? A job advert isn’t a fake job, although many of these are listed. They aren’t Job Descriptions either - the next chapter explains why this distinction is important. While you may spend much time perusing job boards and talking with fellow job seekers, reading their posts on LinkedIn - I’d expect most employers have little awareness outside of their own sphere of what happens in the job seeker community. They’ll advertise how they advertise, instruct agencies how they instruct agencies and run their process how they run their process. I wonder how many great employers use Workday as an ATS, fill their jobs suitably, and have no knowledge of how Workday is viewed by job seekers who have dozens of Workday accounts, one per application? It’s true terrible employers might do the same. In one of my job advert consultations I had a detailed conversation with a Talent Acquisition Manager of a local technology consultancy. I can say that they are a jewel in the crown of technology development in the UK, have top 1% compensation, offer career development, and are a fantastic place to work. I know this because I have spoken to many people who have worked there. All speak highly of them. Yet the advert we reviewed had a number of red flags: £Competitive salary Generic company first text Confusion around job titles If you were an ideal candidate who decided not to apply because of these red flags you’d have missed out. There are two considerations in how an advert might be put together. The first is whether it is a product of a transactional process or whether the hiring team recognises potential candidates are driven by selfish reasons and seek to understand ‘what’s in it for them.’ (I’ve mentioned WIIFM (What’s in it for me) a few times now - answering that is key to good marketing) The second is the direction of travel - are you reading a job board advert or have you been contacted proactively about the vacancy? A transactional process is defined by information transactions with a focus on speed and volume. It places less emphasis on qualitative measures such as accuracy, specificity, relationships, and empathy. Instead you can define the process by a series of information transactions and exchanges: Job description Advert Suitable number of relevant applications Suitable number of interviews Offer Starter The goal is to fill a vacancy. A non-transactional process recognises the importance of relationships and that to build trust the right information needs to be put forward. Though the steps are much the same, at each stage the question is asked: ‘Does this give the candidate the right information to make an informed decision?’ Here a candidate is everyone who interacts with the vacancy outside of the hiring end - even a reader who chooses not to apply. The goal is to create a process that draws the right person forward while leaving everyone with a good experience. It’s not just about decency - it’s about long-term commercial outcomes. If you want the right person to thrive over the long term the process has to reflect this goal. While all the ‘nos’ might be commercial opportunity in future - future candidates, future customers - who knows? These are the archetypes. In reality, recruitment falls somewhere along this spectrum, often changing at different stages in the process. Intent matters even if the execution is flawed. Why does it matter ? Because a healthy rule of thumb is to reciprocate the level of care you experience. If you come across a transactional process - treat it transactionally. This isn’t inherently bad - it’s just the way of the process. The employers may still be good to work for. When and whether to apply Irrespective of how a role is recruited, there will be non-negotiable essential criteria that inform whether or not you are suitable. If you can establish these criteria you can confirm whether to apply. The problem is these criteria aren’t always stated. Sometimes they are implicit to the context - if the role is employed by a rapidly growing scale-up, it’s likely they’ll need someone with that experience. Hopefully this context is alluded to in the advert. It will need critical thinking to parse. Sometimes these aren’t defined at the outset and become mandatory when there are too many candidates in view. Sometimes these are hidden by Goldilocks or illegal discrimination - not too experienced, not too inexperienced, not too old. Sometimes the employer can’t divulge essential criteria. The other problem is that some essential criteria aren’t essential, such as when a company writes unrealistic shopping lists. Yes, it’s a FUBAR situation given it’s pretty hard to tell whether you’re a suitable candidate or whether you should even apply. Nonetheless - if you choose to apply your application must show how you can meet any essential criteria you can identify. If that’s the only thing your application does - it must do this. In my experience, transactional processes are the hardest to unpick, with adverts going something like: Here at genericorp we are proud to be recruiting for a in our market leading innovative environment. You’ll be doing You’ll need In return you can expect a £competitive salary. Apply with a full cover letter and updated CV. Only successful candidates will be contacted. Familiar? Whereas the rare non-transactional adverts give more of a narrative about why the right person might think to apply or give you avenues for finding more information. A note on inbound enquiries. With automation allowing volume outreach the effort to produce transactional DMs, emails and messages is pretty low. You might think when you receive such a message that you are already in the running - in many situations you are a transactional prospect. I’ve even heard some recruiters InMail #OpenToWork profiles only to improve their response rates. While not all messages are this way these are potential reasons you might not hear back when you reply to a recruiter. It’s not quite the case with phone calls which have yet to be executed through automation (some platforms promise AI call automation already). Again, you can separate transactional from non-transactional straightforwardly. Transactional leads with selling the job. Non-transactional seeks to explore if you are the right candidate. If the vacancy isn’t right it’s best to find that out as early as possible and save everyone time. Inbound enquiries are still adverts, in a different medium. Try not to treat your job search transactionally by default. Your goal isn’t to apply for hundreds of jobs. Your goal is to start conversations that count. By prioritising adverts in the right way you’ll improve your odds with high stakes applications. You’ll gain time and energy for other activities, including taking time away from your job search to recharge. 
By Greg Wyatt February 26, 2026
So here were are, the start of a new series. This series may be around 10 editions, looking at the things other industries do that we can implement into recruitment. These were written 3 years ago, right at the start of the AI zazzle, and in some ways have dated quite a bit. In others, the way in which they haven't dated at all, because the principles of how we live our business lives can be universal. So, I'm not sure yet, how much editing I'll do, whether there will be any inclusions, or whether I'll leave articles intact, as a moment in time. I've learnt all of these notions from candidates and clients, as I came to understand the function of their vacancies. Hearing about the daily practice from people doing jobs, I couldn't help but notice the same relevance in recruitment. So while these articles are hardly comprehensive, perhaps they'll make you look at your candidates differently, in what we can learn from them, and how that might improve our recruitment. Why five? December 2022 Ask anyone involved in active recruitment what their key problems are, and they’ll likely talk about skills shortages and candidate behaviour. On the face of it, problems which are out of our control, worthy of complaint with little opportunity to find improvement. But what if these were issues that weren’t entirely out of our control? What if we could apply a replicable process to understand what’s really going on, and how we can make a difference? Fortunately, we needn’t invent the wheel, as other industries have already done this for us. One such is 5Y, or Five Whys, a problem-solving technique that was developed by Toyota in the 1930s. It's part of the Toyota Management System that has inspired much of my work. Five is the general number of “Why?”s needed to get to the root of a problem. Often you can get to the heart of the issue sooner, sometimes later. Often there are multiple root causes. More than just solving problems, it’s about establishing practical countermeasures to prevent these problems from coming up in future. 5Y is an example of Toyota’s philosophy of “go and see”: working on the shop floor to find out how things work in practice to find ways for iterative improvement. This isn’t a theoretical idea to try out on a whim – it’s based on grounded reality and almost always works. There are two costs – time and accountability. Here’s a practical example, then a recruitment one. (Names have been removed to protect my identity) Problem 1 : The children were late for school. Why? Traffic held us up. Why? We left the house late. Why? The children weren’t ready on time. Why? Their school uniforms weren’t prepared. Why? We hadn’t set them out the night before. Here the countermeasure is to get everything ready the night before, rather than blame traffic for being late. Perhaps we might have gotten to school on time without heavy traffic, but that is an element out of our control. Of course, here there is another root cause – very naughty children – but better to focus on the simple changes. And sometimes traffic is the root cause after all, once you’ve ruled out other elements in your control. (2026 note: my eldest now often drives my youngest to school. A time laden solution I hadn't considered three years ago. Now I don't care if they're late 😆) Problem 2: Candidates keep ghosting us. Why? They weren’t committed to responding. Why? They didn’t accept my requirement for a response. Why? They saw no value in my requirement. Why? I didn’t create an environment where this requirement has value ( root cause 1 ). Or because they are very naughty candidates, with a bad attitude. Why have we allowed someone with a bad attitude in our recruitment process? Because we didn’t prequalify them well enough ( root cause 2 ) The first root cause is something we can work on by giving candidates what they need, building trust, and working to mutual obligations. There are many ways to do this – I’ve already talked about examples in previous newsletters. It comes down to good candidate experience and reciprocity. The second root cause requires us to work harder at understanding candidate needs, aspirations, behaviours and attitudes at the outset of a recruitment process. There’s a reason for their behaviour. We can be accountable for finding it. That’s no mean skill to develop, yet an essential one for anyone whose core responsibility is recruitment. And it’s hard to do in a transactional volume process, so the question then becomes, does your process help more than it hinders? You can apply 5Y to any issue you come across, as long as you are prepared to be accountable. At worst you may find that the things that were out of your control are at fault. In this case, you are at least armed with good information to report to your stakeholders, by ruling out other possibilities. What’s the point of doing all this? For me it’s continually improving how I recruit, with the consequence, in the example above, that I am rarely ghosted at all. And you can 5Y any issue you come across. Are poor agency CV submissions their fault, or in part down to your briefing and process? Are skills genuinely scarce, or is your requirement unrealistic? Is it true that your agency hasn’t listened to you, or do you engage the right partners in the right way? 5Y has the answers. Regards, Greg